My Check
List

This check list is more Written for submissive to fill out,
But I filled it out as me being the Dom.
and with the Things I like or would like to try.

If there is a n and nothing after it than no...is the answer
Willingness quick-key:
? = Don't understand this item.
* = I will do with current sex partner only.
NO = I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
0 = No desire, don't like, will permit if special to sub (a soft limit).
1= Don't want to do, but will.
2 = Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 =Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 =LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 =WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.

Experience=yes/no, Willingness=NO or 0-5, Notes & Nuances


Abrasion : n 0
Age play : y 2-3
Anal sex : y 3-5 (me Giving)* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Anal plugs (small) : y 4 (you wearing)
Anal plugs (large) : n 1 (you wearing)
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 3-4
Animal roles : yes 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) : n 3-4
Aromas : - -
Asphyxiation : n 1
Auctioned for charity : yes 3
Ball stretching : n N/A
Bathroom use control : n 0
Beastiality : n 1
Beating (soft) : y 5
Beating (hard) : y 4
Blindfolds : y 5
Being serviced (sexual) : y 4
Being bitten : y 1 (me biting 4-5)
Breast/chest bondage : y 5
Breath control : y 1
Branding : n 1
Boot worship : n 0
Bondage (light) : y 5
Bondage (heavy) : y 5
Bondage (multi-day) : n 2
Bondage (public, under clothing) : yes 3-4
Breast whipping : yes 4-5
Brown showers (scat) : n 0
Cages (locked inside of) :y 5
Caning : y 2-4
Castration fantasy : n 1
Catheterization : n 0
Cattle prod (electrical toy) : n 3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) : n 1
Chains : y 4
Chamber-pot use : 1
Chastity belts : n 2-3
Chauffeuring : n 1
Choking : yes 2
Chores (domestic service) : y 1-3
Clothespins : y 3-5
Cock rings/straps : y 2
Cock worship : y 5 mine being
Collars (worn in private) : y 4
Collars (worn in public) : y 3
Competitions (with other Subs) : n 1
Corsets (wearing casually) : y 3-4
Corsets (trained waist reduction): n 1
Cuffs (leather) : y 5
Cuffs (metal) : yes 1
Cutting : yes 1
Diapers (wearing) : n 0
Diapers (wetting) : n 0
Diapers (soiling) : n 0
Dilation : n 1
Dildoes : yes 5
Double penetration : yes 4-5
Electricity : yes 5
Enemas (for cleansing) : n 0
Eenmas (retention/punishment) : n 0
Enforced chastity : n -2-4
Erotic dance (for audience) : n 4
Examinations (physical) : y 3-4
Exercise (forced/required) : n 1
Exhibitionism (friends) : yes 3-4
Exhibitionism (strangers) : yes 3-4
Eye contact restrictions : yes 3
Face slapping : yes 3-4
Fantasy abandonment : n 1
Fantasy rape : yes 5
Fantasy gang-rape : yes 5

Fear (being scared) : yes 2-3
Fisting (anal) : n 1
Fisting (vaginal) : y 3-4
Flame play : y 4
Following orders : y 4 (my orders)

Foot worship : y 1
Forced bedwetting : n 0-1
Forced dressing : y 4
Forced eating : n 0
Forced homosexuality : N 1 ( Im Srt8 )
Forced heterosexuality : N 1
Forced masturbation : yes 5
Forced nudity (private) : yes 5
Forced nudity (around others) : yes 3
Forced servitude : yes 3-4
Forced smoking : N 0
Full head hoods : n 1
Gags (cloth) : yes 2-3
Gags (inflatible) : n 0
Gags (phallic) : n 0
Gags (rubber) : yes 2-3

Gags (tape) : n 2-3

Gas masks : n 0
Gates of Hell (male) : n NA
Genital sex : yes 5 * = I will do with current sex partner only.
Given away to another Dom (temp) : n 2
Given away to another Dom (perm) : n 0
Golden showers : yes 1-2
Gun play : n 0
Hairbrush spankings : yes 2-4
Hair pulling : y 5
Hand jobs (giving) : y 4* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Hand jobs (receiving) : y 4 * = I will do with current sex partner only.
Harems (serving w/other subs) : n 1-2
Harnessing (leather) : n 3-4
Harnessing (rope) : yes 3-4
Having food chosen for you : yes 1
Having clothing chosen for you : yes 2
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) : yes 5* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus) : yes 5* = I will do with current sex partner only.
High heel wearing : yes 4 (sub)
High heel worship : n 0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) : Yes 1-2
Hoods : n 1
Hot oils (on genitals) : yes 2-3
Hot waxing : y 5
Housework (doing) : y 2
Human puppy dog : n 1
Humiliation (private) : yes 4
Humiliation (public) : yes 1-2
Hypnotism : n 1
Ice cubes : y 1-3
Immobilization : y 2-4
Infantilism : n 0
Initiation rites : n 0
Injections : n 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: yes 4-5
Interrogations : n 1-2
Kidnapping : yes 3-5 (play)
Kneeling : yes 2-4
Knife play : yes 3
Leather clothing : yes 4
Leather restraints : yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior : yes 1-2
Licking (non-sexual) : yes 4
Lingerie (wearing) : yes 5
Manacles & Irons : n 1
Manicures (giving) : yes 2
Massage (giving) : yes 5
Massage (receiving) : yes 5
Medical scenes : Yes 3-5
Modeling for erotic photos : YES ++5
Mouth bits : n 0
Mummification : yes 2
Name change (for scene) : yes 2
Name change (legal, permanant) : n 0 * = I will do with current sex partner only.
Nipple clamps : yes 5
Nipple rings (piercings) : yes 2
Nipple play/"torture" : yes 5
Nipple weights : yes 3
Oral/anal play (rimming) : yes 3-4* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Over-the-knee spanking : yes 3-4
Orgasm denial : yes 2-4
Orgasm control : yes 2-4

Outdoor scenes : Yes 4-5
Outdoor sex : yes 4-5
* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Pain (severe) : y 3-4
Pain (mild) : y 4-5
Persona training (in scene) : y 2
Personality modification (RL) : n 1
Phone sex (serving Dom) : y 1-2 * = I will do with current sex partner only.
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): n 1
Phone sex (commercial provider) : n 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): yes 2-4
Piercing (permanent) : n 1
Plastic surgery : n 1
Prison scenes : n 3-4
Prostitution (public pretense) : n 2-3
Prostitution (actual) : n 0
Pony slave : n 1-2
Public exposure : Yes ++5
Punishment Scene : y 4
Pussy/cock whipping : y 5
Pussy worship : yes 2-3
Riding crops : y 4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): n 3
Rituals : n 0
Religious scenes : yes 0
Restrictive rules on behavior : yes 2-4
Rubber/latex clothing : n 2-3
Rope body harness : Yes 2-3
Saran wrapping : Yes 2-3
Scarification : n 0
Scratching - getting : n 0-1
Scratching - giving : y 1-3
Sensory deprivation : y 3
Serving : y 4
Serving as art : n 1
Serving as ashtray : n 1
Serving as furniture : n 1
Serving as a maid : n 1
Serving as toilet (urine) : n 0-1
Serving as toilet (feces) : n 0
Serving as waitress/waiter : n 1-3
Serving orally (sexual) : y 5
Serving other doms (supervised) : n 1-2
Serving other doms (unsupervised): n 0
Sexual deprivation (short term) : n 2
Sexual deprivation (long term) : n 0
Shaving (body hair) : y 3-4
Shaving (head hair) : n 0
Skinny-dipping : y 5
Sleep deprivation : n 0
Sleepsacks : - n 1
Slutty clothing (private) : y +5
Slutty clothing (public) : y +5
Spandex clothing : yes 4
Spanking : y 4-5
Speech restrictions (when, what) : y 2-4
Speculums (Anal) : n 0
Speculums (vaginal) : Yes 3
Spitting : n 0
Spreader bars : y 4-5
Standing in corner : yes 2-3
Stocks : yes 2-3
Straight jackets : n 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) : y 1-3 (sub sucking)
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) : y 2-4(sub penetrated)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) : y 1-3
Strapping (full body beating) : Yes 1-2
Suspension (upright) : n 2-3
Suspension (inverted) : n 2-3
Suspension (horizontal) : n 2-3
Supplying new partners for Dom : n 1-3
Swallowing feces : N 0
Swallowing semen : Y 4
Swallowing urine : Yes 1
Swapping (with one other couple) : y 2-4 (same room)* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Swinging (multiple couples) : y 1-2 * = I will do with current sex partner only.
Tampon Training (in ass) : n No
Tattooing : n 0
Teasing : y 4
TENS Unit (electrical toy) : Yes 5

Thumbcuffs (metal) : n 0
Tickling : y 2
Triple penetration : n 2-4* = I will do with current sex partner only.
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) : n 1
Uniforms : n 1
Including others : y 1-3
Vaginal dildo : y 4
Verbal humiliation : y 4
Vibrator on genitals : y 3-4
Violet Wand (electricial toy) : n +5
Voyeurism (watching others) : y 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) : n 1-2
Video (watching others) : y 3-4
Video (recordings of you) : y 4
Water torture : n 1
Waxing (hair removal) : n 1-2
Wearing symbolic jewelery : y 3-4
Weight gain (forced) : n 0
Weight loss (forced) : n 0
Whipping : y 4
Wooden paddles : y 4
Wrestling : yes 1-2

This check list is more Written for submissive to fill out,
But I filled it out as me being the Dom.
and with the Things I like or would like to try.

If there is a n and nothing after it than no...is the answer
Willingness quick-key:
? = Don't understand this item.
* = I will do with current sex partner only.
NO = I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit)

0 = No desire, don't like, will permit if special to sub (a soft limit).
1= Don't want to do, but will.
2 = Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 =Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 =LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 =WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.

Experience=yes/no, Willingness=NO or 0-5, Notes & Nuances



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